I took my granddaughter, Lacey, to the park to see her “friends.” At age three, “friends” are whomever is there. “Hi!” and a smile were all it took to get them running to the slide, chattering like lifelong friends.
My heart was warmed by their gleeful shrieks and reassuring cries of “I’m coming!” They took turns, negotiated the rules of their games and included everyone. When one fell they picked him up. They were active and busy, stopping only to say goodbye when a dear friend was told it was time to leave.
These babies were quite in contrast with the media news I’ve been bombarded with for the past several months. Seeing the children on the playground reminded me that people are born to love. Hate, judgement and prejudice are things that are taught later on.
As of late, I am watching the news less and taking Lacey to see her friends more.
…The above was written a week ago. Though it wasn’t finished, today I’ll just add to it.
This morning’s experience was similar to the one I had at the park with Lacey. I walked the beach, stopped at the estuary and watched the birds feed in the early morning. There were many breeds of bird sharing the small haven and the fish that were teeming in the water. I saw great blue herons, mallard ducks, cormorants, egrets, osprey, killdeer, and sand pipers, just to name a few.
What struck me was the harmony in which the various birds coexist. The many types of birds fed, each in their own way, within the tiny boundaries of their community. The ducks ate from the top of the water. Cormorants dove under. The tiny sandpipers pecked at the shoreline. A heron waded in to see what he could find. They were all quite busy and seemed to navigate around each other with ease.
I’ll admit there was one small tousle. The heron and a cormorant both spied the same fish. Each went for it before realizing the other was also. To my surprise, the cormorant pecked at the heron, three times his size, and the heron backed away. Within seconds, however, all was forgiven and the rhythm of the bird community was restored.
I was once again connected with that innate desire to live in peace and harmony. Like the birds, I want to navigate around others with companionable ease. Like my granddaughter, I want to greet whomever is placed in my path with “hi” and a smile.